I tend to want to ‘fix’ people, situations, experiences, feelings, or other people’s clothes and decorating. (yeah, I know, wow.)
I am afraid there are many other people who feel they must fix things too. But the most annoying thing is to try and fix someone else’s character. Toxic behavior is toxic behavior. Life is not about changing someone around you. It is accepting them as they are.
But more importantly, accept yourself for who you are. And why would you be drawn to someone who you are not satisfied with? Once you become acquainted with the true self of who you are, your life will smooth out.
Begin by saying one positive affirmation.
“My Light shines brightly.”
This is a small and easy affirmation to remember. After 10-15 minutes of saying it in your mind, it will become part of you. Soon, you will ‘feel’ the Light coming from your body. You will see what looks like a flood light emanating from behind you.
It feels good! And those around you will feel the shift in you. They will either shift too, to match your vibes. Or they will fade from sight. Either way, you have not interfered with someone else’s being. You let them be who they are!
But now, you have control over your world.
As I say quite often after a guided meditation, “Smile. All is right with your world.”
Melissa Leath writes A Mystics Journal on Substack. She supplies outrageous metaphysical babble/rant from a modern-day mystic's viewpoint and provides workshops about empowerment and psychic/metaphysical development. Her books Psychic Integrity, The Respected Practice of Modern-Day Mystics (Balboa Press, division of Hay House Publishing) and Does Your Child See Sparkles? are available through Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Melissa’s long-term study includes years of group development, platform mediumship, meditation, becoming a spiritual medium and minister and a BA in Metaphysical Counseling. She has worked with 10s of thousands of clients in USA and other countries, taught development classes for 12 years and settled into online workshops.
Please contact Melissa at melisssaleath@gmail.com.